Pavini Moray on Sexual Liberation, Ancestral Healing and the Glitter Revolution [episode 129]
Pavini Moray is sexological bodyworker, somatic sex therapist and ancestral guide living in San Francisco, CA. Pe acts as a guide and witness for folx who embark of the journey of sexual emancipation, calling in the well and bright ancestors for grounding and support along the way. In the face of social resistance, Pavini stands as an advocate for LGBTQ liberation and of glitter that comes with it. Pavini’s podcast, Bespoken Bones goes deep into the connection of ancestors, sex, magick and science for the sake of personal and planetary liberation!
In this conversation, we talk about:
- How Pavini learned to connect with the curiosity of sex and erotic pleasure
- How desire, lust, and passion are connected to sexual liberation
- Pavini’s life transformation from a toxic, monogamous and heterosexual relationship to exploring the realm of sexual relationships beyond the traditional standard
- Designing boundaries to heal from trauma and grow sexual liberation
- Listening to the body’s desire to explore the nontraditional sexual and erotic world
- Cultivating a beginner’s mind to taste and test possibilities for sexual liberation and watching them unfold
- Working through unconscious resistance and shame
- Approach to guiding and witnessing others seeking a liberated path
- Having compassion for all parts of the emancipation journey
- Shifting the stigma that trauma is entirely negative
- Trauma as an altered state of consciousness
- Calling in our well and bright ancestors to anchor and ground in our own bodies
- Working with the LGBTQ community to hold space and reclaim what is rightfully theirs
- Identifying fleeting pleasure vs. deeply nourishing pleasure
- Embodiment and sexual liberation as a practice, accepting where you are in the process
- How some folx are socialized to put a lot of attention on their genitals and some are not
- How genitals can lie at the heart of an integrated experience
- Taking your genitals on a walk, observing where they want to go and how they communicate
- Ecosexuality, engaging in sensuality with nature
- Being mindful with personal power, how to practice safe and consensual relationships
- How Pavini defines the term erotic
- How to determine consent from a nonverbal being
- Building intimate relationships with nature
- Taking a leap of faith to enjoy, non-toxic eco-friendly glitter. Sparkle on!
Bonus! Pavini goes in depth about the process of launching the Bespoken Bones podcast and some of Pavini’s personal magical practices and secret spells in this week’s secret episode!
Links
- Check out Pavini’s podcast, Bespoken Bones
- Learn about Pavini’s sexual liberation work at www.Emancipating-Sexuality.com
- Learn about Pavini’s ancestral healing work at www.TrancestralHealing.com
- Listen to the whole conversation from Natalie and Stephanie on letting spirit come first in business here.